August 24, 2008
Posted: 749 GMT

BEIJING, China - Beijing calls this Olympic Games, "One World, One Dream." My  wheelchair restricted Olympian dad and I call our experience to China's capital city symbolic of "One Big Helping Hand."

Why? One moment after another, Dad and I continued to be awestruck by the lengths people - complete strangers - have been going to assist us, acknowledge us and sometimes simply clear the way.

We traveled well prepared for self-sufficiency. Realistic about how we'd traverse the airport, the city and take in the games within our own set boundaries, I've been wearing flat rubber sole shoes and a modest-sized backpack carrying all our little essentials. Dad has been hands free in his brand new, thick-cushioned royal blue wheelchair.

We've been a great team out to master our own Olympic sport: attending the games with one pair of able legs and a set of four wheels. Piece of cake, I figure.

Yet when strangers - young and old, on the job or taking in sights - spot us there have been Moses-like parting of sea moments. We've lost count how many times this has happened. Still each time, we are overtly surprised and grateful.

Some politely step aside when we approach and then others shuffle to our aid - hands reaching in but to help. Some lift his chair so we can maneuver over high steps or over the broadcast TV cables stretching across roads and sidewalks. Others push my hands off the handles and push the chair with enthusiasm. Beautiful reinforcements to the long-held reputation many Asian communities have about their respect, duty and honor of their elders.

I have been astounded the Olympic motto could apply here: citius, altius, fortius - faster, higher, stronger. When have you ever seen a three-person team of men manually hoist an elderly man along with his 25-pound wheelchair into an exceptionally tall eight-person van? No complaints, no hesitation. Just a go-to, how-do-we-get-the-job-done approach.

It's Day 4 into our journey and I've only had to push Dad's wheelchair two times for any great distance. And what do the lovely people who care for us seek in return? Nothing.

But I tell ya, the giggles we hear from our simple thank you of "xie xie" (pronounced sheay-sheay) and if we happen to have one handy, a CNN Olympic pin, are some of one of the most beautiful gifts we've enjoyed here.

It's the icing on the cake for us. Dad and I have been looking forward to this journey for a while.

Dad came here to reunite with teammates from the 1948 London Games: Two-time gold medalist platform and springboard diver Sammy Lee, bronze long jumper Herb Douglas and gold medal sprinter and hurdler Harrison Dillard.

It was a beautiful reunion of octogenarians who shared adversities like living during the Great Depression, enduring segregation and fighting in World War II,

So a tearful, emotion-filled, bear-hugging celebration between the four is exactly what I and about 20 other "Olympic family members witnessed.

Dad is 83 now but he still has an unbelievable vivid memory filled with a lifetime of travels and adventures. I believe Dad when he says this has been one of his best Olympic game experiences for him ever,  one filled with Olympian friends from 60 years ago along with countless strangers who treated us like long-missed family.

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Brian   August 24th, 2008 1310 GMT

For those of us who love The Lady, it is good to see- and hear from- her.
I have also had wonderful times taking my eighty-nine year old father and WWII veteran to places of his youth.
He has a booklet for fellow veteran Mal Whitfield, if he can have a snailmail address to CNN.

john mccarthy   August 24th, 2008 1714 GMT

Very nice story. I appreciate Fred's sincerity in honoring her father's Olympic dreams and accomplishments from yesteryear. I had read that she had grown to appreciate his past track glory and as a mother saw a resemblance of old track photos of her Dad in her own son's face.

My wife and I are frequent CNN viewers and both appreciate Fred's willingness to get out of the studio and report fresh, interesting stories. In my view, she tries to she light on topics that often get missed by less curious and thoughtful reporters. I can see that in this piece on hers Dad's reunion.

I hope she takes time in her reporting to ask the gentleman in the reunion about the challenges of competing for the United States at a time of institutional and legalized racism that still plagues our communites. Those gentleman, along with so many others, are inspirations to all who fight on behalf of justice, education and understanding.

Above all, Fred is also the one displaying honor and respect toward her elders for all of us by taking her Dad for a victory lap with his Olympic teammates. Nice work Fred and CNN!

Mrs. H   August 24th, 2008 1805 GMT

Both son and father will long remember this special trip to the Olympics. What a son! What a Dad!

william patterson   August 25th, 2008 1955 GMT

I find the Chinese people are so hospitable and they will give their utmost to help you whenever they can.
We should learn from the Chinese.

Food shortage   August 26th, 2008 324 GMT

The Chinese people seem to love all things western (David Beckham included by the looks of it) but in return all we can do is bad mouth them and show no respect. What does that say about us. 
 
There’s an old saying, treat people the same as how you would like to be treated. 
 
Rob, London

Duke Eyman   September 25th, 2008 1259 GMT

Thanks for posting this experience. It was a great way to start the day reading about the kindness of complete strangers in a foriegn land. Your story was a welcome reprive from all of the negative and depressing news we are innindated with.

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